Many interesting things about women. Starting from the creature full of mystery to figure Manja. This time WomanTrust Blog discusses all the women turned out to need a friend who is also female gender. Despite already having a boyfriend or husband, girlfriend still irreplaceable.
Carmen Renee Berry, MSW author of 'girlfriends: Invisible Bonds, Enduring Ties' said the women (like men) have their own language.
Moreover, women are the family friend who selected his own. Here are some reasons why women need a female friend, as quoted from the Women's Day, Friday (6 / 8).
1. Berry said the woman take a friend you shop if you want to share the experience of shopping with someone, rather than someone who follows you shopping.
No matter how nice your boyfriend or husband, they will not understand why the choice between red alligator shoes and shiny leather shoes are so important.
2. When you are facing problems (relationship with spouse, job, or otherwise) no one can fix the problem better than the point of view from your friends.
"You do not need a lot of explaining to a set of your female friends to say what you mean," said Berry.
3. You are like soap operas or reality shows, no matter how hard we try to change the minds of men, they assume your favorite show is unbearable. It's not a problem.
Your spouse does not have to have the same interests with you. You can use the event as a perfect excuse to gather with friends on a regular basis.
4. Gather with your girlfriends in a variety of events, can give you information, which turned out to rejuvenate the conversation you missed. Also, being in a group with people you love, support, and equip you, can give you a sense of freedom that witty, sometimes cause side that you forget you are there.
5. Sometimes men need to get a compliment. No one served as a reminder that better so lucky about your love life than your girlfriend when you recall the last romantic gesture your partner.
6. You may have questions about sex or body on the issue of a boyfriend or husband you do not know the answer. Or you want to keep the 'image' in front of your partner, which might make you feel talking about genital infection is a bad idea.
7. You need a friend who makes you feel good about yourself. Glad you could ask one question and get good honest feedback about the shorts are not comfortable and men who will never fit with your family.
Berry warns, "The purpose of constructive criticism is to improve the lives of female friends you are not a ruse to try to make change."
8. You need someone who has experienced what you've ever experienced. Wisdom comes from experience.
But, according to Berry, women tend to hear, while men feel the need to solve the problem. Berry said the current waste disposal channels belonging to a broken woman, her friend who also complained kesahnya women listen. Her male friend to come with the new sewer and immediately put it.
(From various sources)
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